I am so sorry I've been away but I will continue shortly. I am just thinking about a lot of things lately. There have been a lot of incidents where I have trusted people and been burned. I'm the type of person who forgives but does not forget. It hurts a lot so I choose who I am close with selectively.
Recently, a good friend flipped out because I made a mistake and it hurt a lot. It was more insulting and the thing is once something is done to me I automatically close that person's chapter in my life. The thing is that this person is very dear to me and I was shocked. It was a little thing and I felt she could have done better at addressing the issue.
Well, I have shut a lot of people out and I am really not trying to lose this particular friend over some ish. I have decided to call her and make amends or what do you guys think?
She has always been there for me when my world gets crazy but I now know the only person my total trust should lie on is God.
well I need advice but before let me give a little insight into it. I went to visit her for the week and she had cooked being that I like a lot of maggi (spice) I added it to it. Meanwhile I have been this girls friend for 10yrs.
The day I did it she did not say a word but then I went out later in the day and called her. The way she responded I knew something was up. So i decided it was probably time for me to leave cuz I felt I had to give her privacy cuz she was with her hubby. So I returned from my outing and told her I was leaving. She then replied and said oh you did something and it pissed me off. I was like OK what did I do? oh you added stuff to the soup and I have been mad since yesterday oh and you were sneaky about adding it too.
That pulled a trigger on my brain cuz I felt like I was in a nollywood movie putting juju in her soup and I was livid.
She was so mad and then I realised that being mad at the same time would not do any good so I controlled my temper and announced I was leaving. She gave me a sharp O don't care leave and that was how I left her house thanking her for everything.
It's been two weeks and she did not call me once so hey I want to call her but I don't want to argue anymore. She is very hot tempered so I want things to cool down or what should I do?
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holy shit!
Damn...
First off, i think you were wrong.
Let me put it this way...
If i ever cook for my husband...i am making him MY OWN favorite pasta...
I put Sugar in my Pasta Sauce...and i make my sauce from scratch...if you were with me...for a week, as a friend and you went and added salt in my stuff, and added stuff to my cooking without telling me, or without making your own fresh pot, then i would definitely be upset. But i wouldnt be upset to the point that she took it o.
I find that naija women in naija, take cooking to another level, especially when they are married...
Shit like "DONT TOUCH MY POT"...like who freaking cares...gimme a damn break!
I also think that she coulda gotten offended because she felt you were telling her that her food wasnt good enough, and so you added more maggi.
Do you see where i am coming from?
I suggest you call her and apologize to her...and tell her you miss her and what not...and if she responds, cool, and if she doesnt respond positively, then you know you tried.
But girl dont be adding stuff into peoples cooking ooo, they get really offended over things like that.
I know you didnt mean it too, hopefully your friend realizes how much you care and lets bygons be bygons!
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