My best friend

I am so sorry I've been away but I will continue shortly. I am just thinking about a lot of things lately. There have been a lot of incidents where I have trusted people and been burned. I'm the type of person who forgives but does not forget. It hurts a lot so I choose who I am close with selectively.
Recently, a good friend flipped out because I made a mistake and it hurt a lot. It was more insulting and the thing is once something is done to me I automatically close that person's chapter in my life. The thing is that this person is very dear to me and I was shocked. It was a little thing and I felt she could have done better at addressing the issue.
Well, I have shut a lot of people out and I am really not trying to lose this particular friend over some ish. I have decided to call her and make amends or what do you guys think?
She has always been there for me when my world gets crazy but I now know the only person my total trust should lie on is God.
well I need advice but before let me give a little insight into it. I went to visit her for the week and she had cooked being that I like a lot of maggi (spice) I added it to it. Meanwhile I have been this girls friend for 10yrs.
The day I did it she did not say a word but then I went out later in the day and called her. The way she responded I knew something was up. So i decided it was probably time for me to leave cuz I felt I had to give her privacy cuz she was with her hubby. So I returned from my outing and told her I was leaving. She then replied and said oh you did something and it pissed me off. I was like OK what did I do? oh you added stuff to the soup and I have been mad since yesterday oh and you were sneaky about adding it too.
That pulled a trigger on my brain cuz I felt like I was in a nollywood movie putting juju in her soup and I was livid.
She was so mad and then I realised that being mad at the same time would not do any good so I controlled my temper and announced I was leaving. She gave me a sharp O don't care leave and that was how I left her house thanking her for everything.
It's been two weeks and she did not call me once so hey I want to call her but I don't want to argue anymore. She is very hot tempered so I want things to cool down or what should I do?