Out of sight is not out of mind !!!!

It"s been ages. Cough Cough. There is so much dust and cobwebs. So much has happened in the past few years. I need motivation to write and something occurred recently to make me want to bear my soul. 

I was reading my last post and realized how time flies. To update you guys, the so called younger man happened to be older than me. Life is so funny. I found  out he was older and has a wife in naija. 

The day I found out it was never the same.

On the fateful day, I lured him to my apartment and you know me I made some Amala dudu and some great riro with some wine. I acted normal like nothing happened and then started to gist. He never saw it coming. The laptop was open so I googled him and found pictures of him and his wife on their wedding day. A few minutes later, after he had gotten comfortable I asked 

Me: babe come and see something I found on the net. It is really nice

Him: oh yeah really what is it? You always have good taste in stuff ( thinking I'm trying to show him a shopping website ode Oshi)

Me: see this man and his wife the man looks familiar.

Him: ok ehn let me see. 

Once he saw it he froze. 

Me: is this not you with your wife?

Him: me ke. I have no wife o. It's not me. Ahah hey have you poisoned me. Ah I will call naija o. Yeeee.

Me: I won't dignify your question with an answer ( I started laughing like a maniac)

Me: I will count to 3 hopefully for you, you will be out of my house by then. Idiot.

Him: I am sorry but it"s not me.

I was so mad and told him I wanted him out of my house. That was the end of that mess.

Men they will never change.

Have more gists but you'll have to wait till tomorrow.

Kisses!!!,!,!,

Spring has sprung

Hello ya'll it been a long time. Well just trying to keep up with everything on my plate. Recently met someone who is not really my type and Im older. Being open minded is one thing and not settling for less is another. My question is do you settle for less just cuz of age or circumstance.
Well I beleive age is nothing but a number but then again you can never tell. A lot has happened since the last time. Getting over a break up is not easy so I guess the next step is to dust myself off and try again.
Life is a journey and I am looking forward to it. The things women go through for love. Long story different day. So i'm off blogger world. See you soon.

Mr. Randy III

Well guys have a little bit of time on my hands today. Here's the rest of Mr. Randy's story. The ongoing calls at night would last for hours till we realized we had to go to work the next day. We always had something to talk about but I hated his love for the occasional drink oh and by the way his stinginess. Oh my gosh anytime I would talk about shopping or going to the mall he would have a fit.
Oh Baby why do you like to shop so much cuz I dont like the mall or oh why do you waste money this is coming from someone who spends $60 on a supposed designer belt. One night we had a converstaion about just popping up to see eachother. I decided to do my popping up on a Friday night.
I had on my hug em tight jeans with all the right curves and black lacy thong and bra to match not to forget my lola by marc jacob perfume going on. My hair was swept back in curly braids  with my lips glistening with mac lipglass. I called him and told him I was downstairs he came down and the first expression was damn those lips. I planted a hot kiss on his lips and we went upstairs.
Once we get into his room we start to listen to trey song's I invented sex. It set the mood and  then we were sipping on red wine I started to get tipsy.
We start to slow dance and feel eachother's bodies and then we start to kiss passionately. I know dey do this kain thing but before you know it I am butt naked. Remember ya'll I dont give head too soon so instead I bent over on a side couch and before you know it he came in from behind. You know what the funniest thing is that there was a mirror I think purposely by a desk so we could  see eachother having sex. He had no expression and he kept thrusting and at first it hurt so good and then it was exhilarating umhumh umh. He kept going on and on and on for 45mins. By the time we were done we had juices everywhere and headed to the shower.
In the shower we lathered up and then we baegan to kiss and cuddle before you know it we were at it again with the steamy shower and all. Now that I think about it I tremble with ecstacy. He knew how to touch me the way I wanted to be touched. We had the three best dates I've had in a long while.
I talk to him once in a while the passion has subdued a little but I know where to go when I need my fix. purrrrrrr.


till next week yall or maybe sooner

Mr. Randy

Sorry trying to get used to blogging again. I am just finding my sexual side it took so long for me to admit loving sex. I guess I have been so frigid it's ridiculous but here's a side of me I'm opening up to you guys. Enjoy.
The following weekend I went to Mr. Randy and we met at his house. The first sight of a problem was his drinking. It irritated me but I wanted to cut him some slack. We talked went to the movies and after the movies we went clubbing. I felt every peck and muscle of his body while we were dancing and I fantasized how he'd use his hands on my body.He was sexy as hell.
Hours later we were at his house after a night on the town. It was the first date since my breakup and I had mixed feelings. He was 6ft 2 had a banging body,great smile and held a good conversation. This Edo man was something else.
It was late and time for me to go but he wanted me to stay and I thought to myself this man don come o. His body reeked of sex and since it had been a long while I'd had some I decided to stay. I was worried about giving him some on the second date but then I threw caution to the wind. I had always been a good girl and really gained nothing from it.
We put on the pandora jukebox and suddenly my favorite singer Maxwell come on with till the cops come knocking. We start dancing and then kissing passionately. He kept staring at my eyes and my body kept quivering under his touch. I sucked on his succulent lips and his body was rock hard. Before you know it we were naked I have never seen so much sculpture on a man's body. Everything was perfect. He started to suck on my nipples to the point of pain and began to rub me in the right ways oh my!!
It was sheer ecstasy. when he started to thrust into me I wanted to explode. He was gentle and kept asking if I was ok. It went on for 45mins I kid you not. His manhood was not as big in regards to what i was used to but he worked it like magic. It was a little smaller. He did not get tired mind you I did not mind at all. He kept thrusting in and out and it blew my mind. I orgasmed multiple times until we both climaxed and it was beautiful. Sheer ecstasy we both exploded. He wanted head after but I refused being that we just knew each other. sheeewwww I didn't want his schlong in my mouth period especially since it was the first time. Kinda weird I guess but to me I have to be with a guy a few times before he gets head simple rules.
well this was only date 2. We kept calling and talking till 3am every night after that and all . I'll give details about date3 soon see ya.

Happy New year

Oh my gosh its been 3yrs. A lot has happened finished school. My daughter is older and I'm stepping up my game. In the job market right now and looking. If I get offered one more measly inadequate offer I'm gonna scream.
The 4th quarter of 2009 was very challenging went thru so much. Ended a relationship.Don't really want to share cuz I'm getting over it but have dated and I think this man is question was a rebound man.
Here's the story I went on a naija dating website. We chatted and before you know it we started talking. A week later I met up with him and the first nite was magical. I was scared shitless cuz then I thought to myself what if he is a murderer or something.
Well my first impression was that he wasn't quite a good looking as my ex but he was built like like a fox. In my mind I was like ok not my type but then OK we'll see how it goes.
Let' s see it went like this
Mr. Randy: oh well your eyes are so beautiful. wow u look better in person. u want a drink?
Me: well thanks (was kind of shy cuz it had been a long time since I'd been on a date)
Mr. Randy: how come ur'e not talking don't u like me?
At this point I noticed he liked alcohol and then it was weird he kept ordering shot after shot and in my head I was like omuti(drunkard) but then I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt.
We then left the bar and I did something unusual we went back to his place. I was so uncomfortable and the next thing we talk listen to naija music esp Asha.
Before you know it we were kissing like teenagers.
My body was on fire I hadn't felt that way in years but I resisted temptation cuz I'm still old fashioned y'all. We cuddled on the bed made out ,felt up each other and I could feel him as hard as a rock.
He touched me in places I never knew existed. When he hit my g spot it felt like heaven and the more he touched me the more I wanted him but I had to control myself. I cant believe we didn't make love but it was great.
The next day I teased him about not making his move and from that day we would call and stay on the phone for 3hrs every day for the next month or so till. I gotta stop here I'll tell you the rest later.

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Hell on Earth

Hi, I have been really busy so bear with me. I am going through something that is very difficult to explain and I need prayers. I pray I can withstand this storm because it is a very serious part of my life. God now is the time I need you pls be with me along this journey.